Sex Advice From a Female Bodybuilder [Part 2]

Jill Jaxen in the locker room advice main pic.

Photos by Samantha Kelly

Want to be better in bed, get sex advice, tips and tricks plus more! Listen and learn from our “sexpert” IFBB pro physique competitor Jill Jaxen.

"If you’re on a time crunch, you can always tell her to get started herself and call you when she’s warmed up."

What are the social obligations related to running into a one-night stand in the gym?

Say hello. Be cool and cordial. Then go to the opposite side of the gym and hope you don’t run into them again. Or if it was good, text them and ask if you can do it again!

Can a vibrator desensitize my girlfriend to the point that I can’t please her?

Absolutely not. But you have to put in the work. Hopefully you guys realize that we can be stimulated BOTH clitorally and vaginally.

I know men are more stimulated by visual cues than women, but do women find the male member aesthetically pleasing?

It all depends on the member. I personally have seen some that look like Mr. Snuffalupagus and others that should have been cast in gold and put on a pedestal somewhere. Everyone is different. But, yes, there is indeed such a thing as a pretty penis.

"If it was good, text them and ask if you can do it again!"

My girlfriend needs at least 30 minutes of foreplay before sex every time? Is there anything I can do to speed her up?

If you’re on a time crunch, you can always tell her to get started herself and call you when she’s warmed up. Or you could always improvise with the aid of a vibrator to help stimulate her at a quicker pace. Or you could always just use the old tried and true method and go first and foremost downtown and get to work immediately off the bat. If none of that works you could always buy her some expensive jewelry!