Sex Advice From a Female Bodybuilder [Part 4]

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Sex & Relationship Advice from the Locker Room.
Our resident expert is here. Get the scoop from physique athlete Jill Jaxen. Sex advice, relationships, dating and more.

"Personally, I think if you like muscular women you have good taste, but obviously I’m partial being that I’m a muscular broad."

I am a woman who doesn’t feel confident in the bedroom. What is some advice to be sexy in bed and do you have a good mind blowing trick?

I like having mirrors. Everywhere. Call it narcissistic, call it somewhat horrifying, but I love it. I totally get off watching me with my partner and seeing how turned on I can make them and vice versa, whereas I wouldn’t necessarily be able to see them or facial expressions without the mirror. It’s very empowering to watch yourself and it will make you appreciate your body more. As far as tricks go, master the art of the blow job. It’s like a little black dress. Classic. Simple. And it will never go out of style.

What does a muscular woman really think about guys with a female muscle fetish?

Look, everyone and I mean everyone has a fetish for SOMETHING in life. Personally, I think if you like muscular women you have good taste, but obviously I’m partial being that I’m a muscular broad. I think in terms of men who have a female muscle fetish, it depends on the guy. There’s a big stereotyping that the men who like muscular women tend to be smaller, schmoe’er, creepier skinny types or ginormous men but you have all walks of life out there who appreciate female muscle. The bottom line is don’t be a creep or a weirdo or when approaching women with muscle and we’ll think you’re super swell.

Is there a secret to being great at oral sex on my girlfriend?

Practice, practice, practice. At least 3 times a day. Everyday. Talk to her. Ask her if what you’re doing is on the money. And use your fingers at the same time you’re performing with your mouth.

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"Have good cardio. No one likes a one pump chump or a guy who gasses out."

I worry about how I smell when a girl goes down on me. Is there anything I should do about it?

Thank you sir for caring. You should. A LOT. No one wants to smell funk on their trunk, so manscaping is essential. Shower often. Wear fresh drawers. Use baby powder. Keep it shaved/trimmed. Balls, too, homie. Drink plenty of water and have a healthy diet and everyone will be happy.

I am always super horny and erect when I wake up in the morning but my girlfriend is not into morning sex. Is there anything I can do to get some more attention in the mornings?

Make her pancakes in bed. That should garner you at least a blowjob. Or wake her up by performing oral sex on her. If neither of those game plans works then your girlfriend is lame.

What exercises can I do to help me be better at sex and help me last longer in bed?

Have good cardio. No one likes a one pump chump or a guy who gasses out. I find abdominal muscles and pelvic lines to be extremely hot on a guy – both of which are achieved by crunches and torso twists. Learn how to breathe. When you can control your breathing, you can control everything.

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