Sex Advice From a Female Bodybuilder [Part 7]

Sex & Relationship Advice from the Locker Room.

Ask all the crazy little questions dancing around in your head and get the dirt from IFBB PRO physique athlete Jill Jaxen.

"70% of women fake orgasms. Which means less than 30% are actually getting off."

Would you be offended or thrilled if your boyfriend bought you a vibrator?

I personally would be excited if my boyfriend bought me a new vibrator. And I would be even more excited when we played with it together. Guys – don’t be shy!

We all know women fake orgasms from time to time. What would you say the percentage is from real to fake?

70% of women fake orgasms. Which means less than 30% are actually getting off. Maybe if more boyfriends bought their girlfriends vibrators and played with it and learned what got their partner off, the percentage of orgasms would increase. Just sayin! Explore each other and find out what your partner likes and what works for you both in order to achieve maximum pleasure in bed together!

There are a few fit girls in my gym that I would love to ask out on a date. Is there a good way to approach someone in the gym? Have you ever gone out with a “Random guy” from the gym?

I have indeed dated a random guy from the gym, but I properly stalked him out on all forms of social media and Googled him 1000 times over before we went out. So, I don’t know if that would make him ‘random’ anymore. Start off with smiling and saying hello. Don’t be a creep, don’t stare and don’t follow her around the gym. You can however strike up a conversation if the timing is right and/or try and approach her outside the gym after her workout so as to not put her on the spot in the middle of her set.

"I have indeed dated a random guy from the gym, but I properly stalked him out on all forms of social media and Googled him 1000 times over before we went out."

My libido is at its highest first thing in the morning and after a great workout but my girlfriend doesn’t seem up for anything at either of those times. What are your top times for a woman to be in the mood?

Every woman is different. You and your partner need to communicate and agree upon a good time when you both will be up to have a romp. If she’s not a morning person, try getting at her in the evening. Or if you’re too tired after a workout, try having a quick smash as a pre-workout! It’s a great way to boost your adrenalin! I personally like the mornings and after a workout, but I also have a healthy libido, so I don’t discriminate timing. You can always make time to be with your partner.